Im having embarissing thoughts about my bff were bof gurlss haz any1 else had this problem what should i do!!?

I kinda had the same issue but different. Anyway well she wont hate you, for being that unless she is homophobic but it will change your friendship with her. If you have a bf and like guys then your straight and these feelings you have developed are only a result of your emotional attachments to her. Wait it out for a while if not for the sake of your friendship but the sake of your boyfriend. Sexual feeelings are completely normal even though they are not frequently discussed. These thoughts are all just due to a hell of a lot of hormones but don't worry it will pass. Also your only 13 don't label yourself as lesbian before even having sexual experiences and liking other women.